In our fortnightly column ‘Great Sexpectations’ we answer your questions on sex, faith and intimacy. Drop us an email on womanalive@premier.org.uk and ask us anything. Here, we answer someone who wants to know if she should keep dating a guy she was set up with
Dear Woman Alive,
I was set up with a guy by some friends. He is my friend’s husband’s only Christian friend, and I am her only Christian friend, so they thought we would connect! When I first met him I wasn’t attracted to him physically, but I said yes to going out for a drink. We have quite a lot in common, and I could tell he is a really good guy. We went out for a meal after that, and then he came to church with me, and we had a drink after. I am not sure whether he is the one for me still, and I wondered how many dates I should go on to know if there is real potential? I worry that I am still seeing him because there are no other nice Christian guys around. But at the same time, I think I would be jealous if he started dating someone else, because he is really kind, and we do have a good time together. What do you advise? When do you know if it is a ‘just friends’ type of situation?
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