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‘You look so skinny’, ‘you’re so well spoken’ and other compliments that can actually cause us pain
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Tibz Adeniyi2022-04-11T08:30:00
Writer Tibz Adeniyi explains the she thinks we don’t talk enough about why some ‘compliments’ hurt instead of flatter. And says it’s time we stopped laughing it off and silently carring the hurt deep down.
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